How to undo the frying of your brain
social media mental health technology digital wellbeing dopamine detox
8 min read
Neeraj Mukta
Taking back control of your brain requires dedication and will power. Being mindful of choices you make throughout the day is the key to taking back your time.
The 8-Week Brain Reset Challenge
Look, I’ve been there. Last month, I caught myself watching cat videos at 3 AM while three deadlines loomed over my head. That was my rock bottom. But instead of beating myself up, I decided to experiment with my digital habits. What happened next surprised me.
Here’s your practical guide to rewiring your brain, backed by my personal experience and cognitive science. No meditation apps required (ironic, right?).
- Week 1: Embrace the Void (AKA Make Boredom Your Friend)
- Pick your “Offline Sunday” - mine is every Sunday from 8 PM to Monday 8 PM
- First challenge: Delete TikTok and Instagram for just 24 hours
- Warning: You’ll feel phantom vibrations. Your thumb will mindlessly tap where the apps used to be
- Pro tip: Keep a “craving journal” - note when you reach for your phone and what triggered it
- Real talk: The first 8 hours are brutal. I nearly caved at hour 6. Push through.so how do you unfry your brain?
You need to reset the system. Not with vague “be mindful” platitudes—but with structural changes that hit the same levers the platforms use on you.
Try this, starting today:
- Make boredom legal again
- Carve out 24 hours with no feeds: no shorts, no infinite scroll, no “For You,” no autoplay.
- Expect the first 8 hours to feel itchy and weird. That’s withdrawal. Keep going.
- Week 2-3: Dismantle Your Personal Casino
- Experiment: I logged my screen time for a week. Shocking result: 4.5 hours daily on infinite scroll
- Action steps:
- Move all social apps to a folder named “Really?” (yes, the shame helps)
- Set up Desktop Mode: Instagram/Twitter only on computer, max 30 minutes
- Install Freedom or Cold Turkey - I block everything from 9 PM to 9 AM
- Turn off autoplay everywhere (yes, even Netflix)
- Unexpected win: Found time to finally start that side project
- Week 4: Hack Your Visual Triggers
- The Grayscale Challenge: Turn your phone to grayscale (Settings > Accessibility)
- My experience: Instagram looks depressing, TikTok feels boring, and ads lose their power
- Create a “Conscious Layout”:
- First screen: Only tools (Maps, Calendar, Notes)
- Second screen: Communication (Phone, Messages)
- Third screen: The “Think Twice” folder with all social apps
- Result: App opens dropped by 70% in first week
- Front-load effort before reward
- Do a 10-minute “cold start” work sprint before opening any feed each day.
- Stack it with a cue: sit, press timer, start. The win becomes your new early dopamine.
- Replace junk novelty with real novelty
- Micro-adventures: new route to work, new café, new park, new recipe, new instrument.
- Novelty without algorithmic drip re-sensitizes your brain to real life.
- Protect deep work like it’s a newborn
- 50-minute focus blocks, phone in another room, single tab, full-screen only.
- End each block with a deliberate, non-digital reward: sunlight, water, stretch, walk.
- Track what matters
- Each day: minutes scrolled, minutes focused, how you felt after both.
- Watch the curve switch: less scroll, better mood, more output. Data beats denial.
- Rebuild serotonin on purpose
- Sleep like it’s sacred.
- Sunlight before screens.
- Protein at breakfast.
- Move your body—short, intense bursts count.
- Talk to an actual human. Yes, in person.